I’ve been on my share of first dates. Some have been amazingly yummy, just like the first bite of a great loaf of french bread. And others, felt like the slice of Iron Kids bread that I grew mold on as a science experiment in 4th grade. People practice their interview skills all the time, why not apply those same skills to a first date?

• Dress the part. Think of it as the best version of yourself ever. I’m not saying put on a suit and tie, but even before a single “hello” comes out of your mouth, your date has checked you out, given you the once over (and maybe undressed you) all in the span of 3 seconds.

• It’s all in the preparation. I don’t believe in pre-written scripts and you shouldn’t either. Know yourself. Most interviews have similar basic questions. You’re probably going to be asked about your past job, past projects, your ability to work well with others, your hobbies or interests. Over 80% of my first dates have asked about my musical tastes, what I like to do for fun, what type of foods I enjoy…I like to keep my answers interesting, never one word answers. Focus on the positive and it doesn’t hurt to smile.

• Communicate like you mean it. Good conversation is the key to a good interview. Great conversation during a first date usually means I’m game for seconds. Back in college I read that people who speak with their hands are perceived as more honest and create an overall positive image. So, I signed myself up for a course in Italian. I’ve watched the Godfather enough times to know those people like to gesture when they talk. A year later, gesturing during conversation is second nature.

• Is this a good fit for me? Okay. Most of my points above are about trying to spin the date in a positive direction. It’s just as important that you’re listening to what the other person says. Not every job is a perfect fit and neither is every person. That’s okay. I’ve been trying to find the perfect pair of jeans since 1994.