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Filed under: dancing by vivlai

Sometimes I just need a boys’ night out. So when an invitation came my way to shoot the shit, chew the fat, and hangout with the guys; I jumped! However, as with all things in my life, there was a lemony twist. It was going to be a BOYS Night Out in San Francisco’s infamously [...]

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Drag queens & Awkward meetings

Filed under: advice, confidence by vivlai

In case you ever run into your ex’s half brother in the middle of a leather & bondage Folsom Street Fair and you’re dressed as a burlesque dancer while holding a sparklely hula hoop…here’s what you do:

Smile. There’s nothing more disarming than blinding someone momentarily by flashing the pearly whites.
Make Eye Contact. You’ve already [...]

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A word about booze

Filed under: advice, confidence, first dates, know yourself by vivlai

Who hasn’t indulged in a little liquid courage now and again, especially on a palm sweating first date. Here’s a word of advice, booze is a bummer. One drink is dandy, but anymore and things get randy. But maybe you like ‘em easy and loose. Be nice and remember to hold back her hair while [...]

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