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Walk of shame

Filed under: advice, rant by vivlai

The hair is a disheveled mess of a mop and it looks like you rolled around in bed for the past hour…continuously. The clothes are a perfect mix of broken-in dirty wash and rumpled unpretentiousness. The makeup is flawlessly imperfect, smudged to create the perfect smokey eye… But that’s my favorite look to rock on [...]

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Typecasts & Personality profiles

Filed under: know yourself, rant by vivlai

Between work and my social shenanigans, I’ve been meeting a lot of new people recently. I always try to jump in with a fun upbeat attitude, but sometimes I get comments/questions that suggest they’re trying to typecast me (and I HATE being personality profiled): So…you’ve lived in Vegas? When I ramble off the list of [...]

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Date weight

Filed under: advice, appearance, openings by vivlai

A few months after my last major breakup, I received some blunt advice “Get back to your date weight.” I don’t think anyone would ever mistake me for a heifer, but somewhere in the span of the relationship I let myself go (a whole five pounds!). It sucks, because it’s usually the girls that put [...]

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