Comments on: Breads of all types http://breadandboys.com/2009/12/breads-of-all-types/ a single girl's adventure in the pursuit of a great date Wed, 23 Jun 2010 03:03:11 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0 By: Alex http://breadandboys.com/2009/12/breads-of-all-types/comment-page-1/#comment-386 Alex Thu, 07 Jan 2010 19:51:56 +0000 http://breadandboys.com/?p=1187#comment-386 Hi Viv, Nice to see you are equally charming in video form and in blog form. I completely agree that men (or women) who make their racial preferences explicitly known (a la Craigslit) come off as creepy. "You want some Mexican in you?" Really? He could at least have gone with a Super Burrito joke. Geez. Blog on, lady. Hi Viv,

Nice to see you are equally charming in video form and in blog form. I completely agree that men (or women) who make their racial preferences explicitly known (a la Craigslit) come off as creepy.

“You want some Mexican in you?” Really? He could at least have gone with a Super Burrito joke. Geez.

Blog on, lady.

]]> By: Lisa http://breadandboys.com/2009/12/breads-of-all-types/comment-page-1/#comment-383 Lisa Tue, 05 Jan 2010 18:49:19 +0000 http://breadandboys.com/?p=1187#comment-383 Yeah, where does he meet girls? If he's at the Asian clubs and no girls like him, it's probably the same at the clubs where the girls aren't Asian. And at the other clubs, everyone is just various shades, partially depending on the lighting and the time of year. One New Year's, I was my whitest winter white, and noticed in the bathroom all the other girls were tan. I thought they all went to the tanning bed, then I realized that was just their natural color. And did you know I'm one quarter hispanic? : ) Yeah, where does he meet girls? If he’s at the Asian clubs and no girls like him, it’s probably the same at the clubs where the girls aren’t Asian. And at the other clubs, everyone is just various shades, partially depending on the lighting and the time of year. One New Year’s, I was my whitest winter white, and noticed in the bathroom all the other girls were tan. I thought they all went to the tanning bed, then I realized that was just their natural color. And did you know I’m one quarter hispanic? : )

]]> By: vivlai http://breadandboys.com/2009/12/breads-of-all-types/comment-page-1/#comment-382 vivlai Tue, 05 Jan 2010 08:04:41 +0000 http://breadandboys.com/?p=1187#comment-382 hiyee lisa! i like your perspective on how the problem isn't "his people"...it's just him. i never know how to properly answer the race question; i don't think there even is a proper answer...especially because there are so many mixed races nowadays. i've had boys put their race straight out on the table, "you know i'm ______" and then wait for my answer/reaction, which goes something like, "ohhhhkayyy, and ???" hiyee lisa! i like your perspective on how the problem isn’t “his people”…it’s just him. i never know how to properly answer the race question; i don’t think there even is a proper answer…especially because there are so many mixed races nowadays. i’ve had boys put their race straight out on the table, “you know i’m ______” and then wait for my answer/reaction, which goes something like, “ohhhhkayyy, and ???”

]]> By: vivlai http://breadandboys.com/2009/12/breads-of-all-types/comment-page-1/#comment-380 vivlai Tue, 05 Jan 2010 07:51:42 +0000 http://breadandboys.com/?p=1187#comment-380 why thank you for the beautiful compliments chris! the whole experience was a lot of fun, and i'm sure some of the things the boys said were partially for entertainment's sake — i'm definitely <strong>not</strong> the next oprah or tyra. for the moment, i'm quite content penning my autobiography from behind my computer. hope your new year's was superfragilisticexpialidocious! why thank you for the beautiful compliments chris! the whole experience was a lot of fun, and i’m sure some of the things the boys said were partially for entertainment’s sake — i’m definitely not the next oprah or tyra. for the moment, i’m quite content penning my autobiography from behind my computer. hope your new year’s was superfragilisticexpialidocious!

]]> By: Lisa http://breadandboys.com/2009/12/breads-of-all-types/comment-page-1/#comment-379 Lisa Mon, 04 Jan 2010 20:33:17 +0000 http://breadandboys.com/?p=1187#comment-379 The foul mouthed guy came off as stupid. I can't imagine girls of any race wanting to date him. Guys like that, "Why won't _____ girls date my people?"- Usually the problem is not his people, it's just him. Looked like the other guy liked you though. The foul mouthed guy came off as stupid. I can’t imagine girls of any race wanting to date him. Guys like that, “Why won’t _____ girls date my people?”- Usually the problem is not his people, it’s just him. Looked like the other guy liked you though.

]]> By: Chris http://breadandboys.com/2009/12/breads-of-all-types/comment-page-1/#comment-375 Chris Thu, 31 Dec 2009 11:23:47 +0000 http://breadandboys.com/?p=1187#comment-375 Viv, You need to host one of these shows. These poor slobs (at least the one on the left) don't have the kind of quick wit that you need as a host. Your "Are you offering?" was a great response, and dude was not processing like you were going to be actually engaged. He slipped from bantering host to his own personal opinion IMHO. It is a gift to be able to elicit Freudian slips. Mental script says Asian girl will be shy, caught off-guard, and defensive; go to follow-up question... Better to preemtively discover than to find out halfway through an adventure date with no escape, ya know? It could easily turn the date into the Ray Liotta "No Escape," and that's not as fun as it sounds. You'll be just fine in this world, you just need time for the right guy to stumble into your path :) Happy New Year, and I hope you cross paths with mister Viv in 2010 (or tonight!). Viv, You need to host one of these shows. These poor slobs (at least the one on the left) don’t have the kind of quick wit that you need as a host. Your “Are you offering?” was a great response, and dude was not processing like you were going to be actually engaged. He slipped from bantering host to his own personal opinion IMHO. It is a gift to be able to elicit Freudian slips. Mental script says Asian girl will be shy, caught off-guard, and defensive; go to follow-up question… Better to preemtively discover than to find out halfway through an adventure date with no escape, ya know? It could easily turn the date into the Ray Liotta “No Escape,” and that’s not as fun as it sounds.

You’ll be just fine in this world, you just need time for the right guy to stumble into your path :) Happy New Year, and I hope you cross paths with mister Viv in 2010 (or tonight!).

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