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Knight in sheep’s clothing

Filed under: openings by vivlai

I’m constantly trying to sharpen my skills — in work, in play, in life in general…so when one of my favorite bread buddies asked me to join him in a networking event, I said, “Sure. Count me in!” Networking events are a lot like speed dates — you’re trying to leave them wanting more. So [...]

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Be open, be available

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I get approached by strangers semi-frequently. I have no idea what the typical average is, but mine hovers around once every couple months. So, when I was propositioned three times this past week…that blew my average right out of the water! It sunk my battleship! This makes me think I’ve begun to master the art [...]

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Date weight

Filed under: advice, appearance, openings by vivlai

A few months after my last major breakup, I received some blunt advice “Get back to your date weight.” I don’t think anyone would ever mistake me for a heifer, but somewhere in the span of the relationship I let myself go (a whole five pounds!). It sucks, because it’s usually the girls that put [...]

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